Now that you have answered the questionnaire you may proceed to the next part of this adventure by reviewing the letters you have selected above to find your probable temperament and that of your spouse.  The General Description of this temperament is shown below.

Link to other types
Link to negotiations matrix

General description of the ENFP temperament:

• - Dynamic, enthusiastic, highly skilled with people, affirming and gregarious.
• - May appear overly positive, even insincere, in praise of others.
• - Often overexert themselves to please others.
• - Ability to see potential in people and be positive about them  with an almost psychic awareness of other people; hypersensitive and hyperalert.
• - Source of continuing warmth, support and understanding;  ready to lend sympathy.
• - Enthusiasm for life.
• - Lacking in organization and follow-through.
• - Restless and rarely complacent.
• - "The more the merrier."
• - Theme of life is "self-expression."
• - Quest to be liked.
• - Great improvisors.
• - Truly believe they can do anything they want.
• - Gregarious sociability and adaptability.
• - Become bored rather quickly with situations and people.
• - Fierce independence, repudiating any sort of subordination.
• - High-spirited, ingenious, imaginative problem solvers.
• - Non-conformists.
• - Personal and Personable.
• - Verbally fluent.
• - Talent for seeing how a liability can be turned into an asset.

• Can see many possible options.
• Will use intuition to have good insights about settlement options and outcomes.
• ENFPs will be challenged by negotiations and may enjoy them.

• ENFPs are not particularly concerned about details and might make erroneous assumptions re:  facts.
• They have no strong desire to be precise or detailed.
• When stressed may become ill or unable to function.  They may have nightmares.
• Will spot good solutions and needs active interactions to consider before reaching agreement.
• ENFPs try to avoid the conflicting aspects of negotiations.
• ENFPs may choose negotiations over litigation in order to avoid conflict and then find face-to-face conflict
•   more debilitating than imagined.

How ENFPs see themselves as negotiators

• They see themselves as empathetic (able to "get into another's  moccasins.")
• See selves as caring, compassionate and unselfish.

How others may see ENFPs as negotiators

• Others may see ENFPs as too "touchy-feely,"  too gushy.
• May not be too excited about the financial aspects.

How ENFPs can work positively with other types

• Remember to listen and use your empathic abilities to draw the other out with appropriate questions.
• Do not tread on the values of your spouse, especially if an I.
• Brainstorming with a friend before negotiation sessions will bring considerable focus to the table.
• Keep a list of negotiating goals and check off the list as you attain each objective.
• Your tendency to focus on the negotiation process can be helpful, particularly if you use this talent to develop negotiation options that work for both of you.

The information in these links describe how each of these temperaments interacts with the others in the context of divorce negotiations.