In his book, Power Talking (a guide for result-oriented business executives), George Walther offers tips for positive communication:

• Commitment -- Say "I will do it" instead of "I'll try".
• Acceptance -- Say "I understand. Can we consider other points of view also?" instead of "I disagree".
• Relationship improvement -- Ask "How can I work on this with you better next time?"
• Positive reinforcement -- When your spouse explains something well, express your appreciation.
• Simple honesty -- Say your piece simply, without jargon such as "To be completely honest," which sounds anything but.

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